This is not for everyone. Is it for you?
Then God said, “Let Us make man in Our image, according to Our likeness; let them have dominion over the fish of the sea, over the birds of the air, and over the cattle, over all the earth and over every creeping thing that creeps on the earth.” So God created man in His own image; in the image of God He created him; male and female He created them.
God created our spirit first and spent time with it before our body was prepared for you.
JEREMIAH 1:5 Before I formed you in the womb I knew you; Before you were born I sanctified you; I ordained you a prophet to the nations.
He knew our spirit and set apart our spirit before our spirit was placed in our body.
And the LORD God formed man of the dust of the ground, and breathed into his nostrils the breath of life; and man became a living being.
God created your body to put your spirit and soul inside of it at an appointed time, being your birthday.
11 For I know the plans I have for you,” declares the Lord, “plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future. Jeremiah 29:11
God saw the dash of our entire life (from birth to death) at the beginning of the creation of our spirits and God has scheduled His plans around every decision that will be made from birth to death.
For whom He foreknew, He also predestined to be conformed to the image of His Son, that He might be the firstborn among many brethren (and sister-en lol).
God's schedule of His plans is complete and He uses all decisions made in life to complete His purpose because He saw life entirely from the beginning of the creation of our spirits (not our bodies), especially our mistakes.
If you have questions feel free to ask.
Scriptures from NKJV Holy Bible